Improve relationship with four standard 3 recommendationsHave some problems between husband and wife is normal, because we are not professionals, for this type of problem is more difficult to deal with, or even a "eat the wrong drug, the wrong party" status. Therefore, it is recommended that in the event of their difficult marriage issue, seek marriage or counselor for help in a timely manner.
1. the spouses have common or mutually acceptable values.
2. for the well-being and development of the spouses to give his attention.
3. can seek common ground while preserving differences, tolerance of differences.
4. equal access to ownership and the right to decide.
a recent study found, on the overall relationship criteria, my husband has a tendency to increase with age relationship standards, but his wife does not change significantly. 7-8 years after marriage, husband and wife relationship standards to rise very quickly, this period is often called "the seven year itch".
maintain a reasonable relationship 3 suggestions:
1. adjust the distance between ideal and reality
everyone will have their own idea of marriage and the love mode, when the dream was replaced with a plain life, problem or crisis will come into being. Life should have a clear mind about marriage. Could not hope to love is always a high combustion have been fanatical love to a cup of boiling water, it needs to be in the marriage slowly cooling until it became drinking a cup of warm water, husband was.
2. to strengthen understanding and communication between couples
sex is not the biggest problem in understanding each other's needs. Psychologists have found that, 73% 's wife and husband, unaware of their spouses, do not know each other's needs. United States, psychologists say, in marriage, the emotional needs of men and women is different: men think important things, may think that a woman is not important while women consider important things, men may think are not important. To achieve a happy relationship, you must understand each other's emotional needs.
human needs are not static, husband and standards vary. At the time of 7-8 years, husband and standards vary.
3. problems for help in a timely manner
have some problems between husband and wife is normal, because we are not professionals, for this type of problem is more difficult to deal with, or even a "eat the wrong drug, the wrong party" status. Therefore, it is recommended that in the event of their difficult marriage issue, seek marriage or counselor for help in a timely manner.
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